ALBAWABA - The Lebanese Prime Minister Najeeb Mikati can be forgiven for his latest blunder on women and sexism. Of course, he didn't mean to but it just came the way it did. All Lebanese went to social as a result to vent.
But his choice of words, especially on such an auspicious occasion - Lebanon's celebration of her 78th year of independence - is clearly regrettable and maybe misinterpreted.
نجيب #ميقاتي يصف الاحتفال باستقلال #لبنان كاحتفال المطلقة بعيد زواجها.. وضجة وسخرية على مواقع التواصل: خطاب ذكوري يسيء للمرأة#العربية pic.twitter.com/9qOWTvxHaM
— العربية (@AlArabiya) November 23, 2021
The Arabic social media and the English ones for that matter - and up till now - has/are fuming with anger, loathing and sarcasm at Mikati who described the Lebanese independence day is like a "divorced women celebrating her marriage". Indeed, what odd choice of words to describe the reeling Lebanese state.
ميقاتي يتعرض لسخرية ولانتقادات شديدة بعد مقارنة عيد استقلال لبنان بامرأة مطلقة تحتفل بعيد زواجهما ، مضيفا أنها لو كانت "متفهمة" لما كانت مطلقة.
— ﮼عايدة (@dodyuser) November 23, 2021
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Needless to say the women of Lebanon fumed at this analogy because the prime minister went on. He added say if the woman had been understanding it would have not led to her divorce in the first place. Shocking! tempers fumed!
The analogy was getting worse by the minute and Mikati should have stopped after his first comment even though many Lebanese saw it as a bad one that clearly doesn't reflect reality. But he actually continued to explain. This explanation about the woman being more understanding and considerate made it worse. What about men activists barked, or the many that in power for that matter.
The analogy was all wrong because somewhere in his comments Mikati wanted to talk about the worsening economic situation of Lebanon. But women are no way to be blamed for that and the same goes for men. But obviously he had something on his mind that he didn't communicate too well.
The way comments went on the social media, it is the Lebanese politicians who are to be blamed. Put the country to rights people electronically shouted. Lebanon is in a terrible economic state with the Lira plummeting, (23,000 to the dollar); exorbitantly high cost of living, no medicines in pharmacies, not even an aspirin. This is not the fault of women!
#عاجل
— Annahar (@Annahar) November 22, 2021
بالصور- #لبنان يحتفل باستقلاله الـ78... عرض عسكريّ رمزيّ في #اليرزة بحضور الرؤساء الثلاثة#عيد_الاسقلال#هيدا_استقلال #عون #بري #ميقاتي #الجيشhttps://t.co/jB4GHdaO9M pic.twitter.com/atTlCNJmOA
But aside from that, bloggers saw the uttering of the prime minister in front of Lebanese President Michel Aoun and Parliament Speaker Michel Berri celebrating Lebanese independence, as paternalistic, patriarchal and down right rude to women.
ما في فايده بالرجل الشرقي
— so? (@sosoandsowhat) November 23, 2021
There was much cynicism also. One tweeted that the Lebanese people have no idea where the next slovenly comment will be coming from, adding "may God help Lebanon. On the patriarchy angle, one just said the man from the Orient, or the East is a lost cause meaning that he won't change whether its the prime minister or the man-in-the street.
قدم استقالتك بعد هالغلطة
— layoun michel (@LayounM) November 22, 2021
Another addressing Prime Minister Mikati says: "You are right and I respect you for this expression" but someone else called him a misogynist.
Another stated Mikati should resign for this comment which is rather drastic and another added now Mikati is another distinguished member of the “Foot in the Mouth Club”.
Mikati is another distinguished member of the “Foot in the Mouth Club”.
— Tammam Nakkash تمّام نقاش (@tnakkash) November 23, 2021